This Mornings’s interview with Bonnie Blue.

This Morning is a British TV programme that airs around 1030 on weekday mornings. As a result of being very much pre watershed, it is a rather controversial decision to choose someone like Bonnie Blue as a guest. She is an adult model who has been gaining notoriety for specifically sleeping with 18 year old men. She is actually only 25 years old but looks and obviously behaves like a very sexualised woman who has been called predatory.

For a woman who boasts about how many men she’s slept with and the money she makes from porn, any platform or publicity will boost her brand. I had heard of her before today and didn’t want to call more attention to her. However, it was an analysis of her personality that got me thinking of writing about her.

Bonnie actually reminds me of Andrew Tate. Both use sex to gain money and fame, albeit in slightly different ways. Bonnie puts herself on camera and Andrew has employed and had relations with cam girls. They both use people. Bonnie makes out that all she is doing is offering a service to make people, especially young men happy. As she was criticised on This Morning, she became very defensive around the topic of taking advantage of young adults’ immaturity and naivety.

Andrew Tate also becomes defensive when questioned and it’s not just the woke and hypocritical BBC who criticise him. It’s fair to at least question a man recorded on camera boasting about and advising on how to steal money from girls and women. I learned from various YouTubers and independent journalists that Tate uses the lover boy method to manipulate females into his grasp, steal from them and prostitute them.

It could be argued that Bonnie Blue isn’t too far behind and isn’t too different from

Andrew Tate. She has created a morally corrupt business and is manipulating the younger of adults. As a character study, these Blue and Tate are familiar, predictable and yet also interesting on a certain level. I think both are narcissists as they use others for their own gain and yet spin a narrative on how they’re offering everyone a grand service.

Also, on a societal level people like these two stick out. They don’t play by the morals and rules that non narcissists have, so they’re kind of a source of fascination mixed with revulsion. There are lessons to be learned about these kind of manipulative characters.

There is of course nothing wrong in having sex and women in particular have faced judgement even around having sex before marriage. Women love and often times need intimacy, as well as men. Also, women do tend to use their looks to their advantage and when it comes modelling, there is a thin line between commercial and what is more risque. My point is sex and sexuality is normal. However, there are boundaries and when we see someone using sex and going too far with it, then they do stand out and rightly face judgement.

It’s also shocking when the family are involved in someone’s sex life as per the case with Bonnie Blue. Her mum made a poster that she used to advertise her so called services. It provokes questions around the mum’s morals and how she sees her daughter for one.

Ugh indeed. As seedy as this topic is, I wanted to write about it as something that does touch on various issues like narcissism and societal standards. The interview on This Morning has been criticised for even airing and that shows that despite some podcasters and organisations popularising degeneracy, people are pushing back on something that instinctively feels very wrong.

Thanks for reading and I’ll see you next time with something less sordid!